Last March, I wrote the first of several posts that would become some of my most important articles to date. These posts were on distracted driving. Since that time, these articles have been read 100s of times and continue to be read on a daily basis.
The distracted driving posts spurred discussion on my site, on Facebook and Twitter and in conversations I had with people who had read them. I have been told many times "I was going to make {or answer} a phone call while I was driving, but then I remembered your article, and I stopped." That means the world to me to know that something I've written has helped to serve as a reminderl making a positive change.
Distracted Driving by the Numbers
I have just spent the last several weeks preparing for the Distracted Driving Forum in New York by reading about and studying the statistics for distracted driving again. The number of deaths is astounding. The lack of laws concerning using cell phones and texting while driving is surprising. Here are the numbers:
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5,500 people in the U.S. were killed & almost half a million injured by distracted driving (2009);
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18% of these fatalities were caused by cell phone usage;
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8 States have laws prohibiting all drivers from using handheld phones while driving;
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30 states have laws banning texting while driving;
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11 state laws were enacted in 2010; and
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0 is the number of states with laws prohibiting all cell phone use (handheld or hands-free) while driving.
The Key to Change
A Consumer Reports Survey indicates that awareness, education and reminders regarding the hazards of distracted driving do help lower the number of drivers who use their cell phones or engage in other distracting behavior while driving.
The key is to talk about this issue with friends and family; young and old alike. Don't be afraid to take away the phone of the person driving if you are a passenger and the driver won't stop using his or her cell phone for calls or texting. Peer pressure does work; at all ages.
Role Models
Children make good reminders. I have talked about distracted driving and the use of cell phones while driving quite a bit with my Darling Boys. Darling 1 now likes to remind us when we are leaving the house, "Remember, no talking or texting while you're driving!" Or while in the car, if the phone rings, "Don't answer the phone unless you pull over!"
It's a great help when your young children are repeating the words of safety that you taught them. We all want to be good role models for our kids. Our actions speak louder than words. DH & I no longer use our phones in the car unless we are sitting in a parking lot or in our driveway, before or after driving to our destinations.
The Challenge
I challenge you to do the same. Put down your phone while driving; put it in your purse or in the glove box or in your pocket. Just make sure it's not accessible to you while you're driving. And talk to your kids about it. Explain the dangers of distracted driving.
My hope is that by providing awareness of this issue at a very young age, driving without distractions will become second nature to our little ones as they grow into teenagers and begin driving. Using phones while driving can stop with the next generation just as using seatbelts became 2nd nature to those of us in our 30s and 40s who can remember stretching out in the back seat or floor board or sleeping with our heads in a parent's lap while driving cross country. This seems absurd now. None of us would ever even consider letting our kids "loose" in our cars now, but less than 30 years ago we were "loose" in our parents' vehicles.
Distracted Driving Resources
Here are more resources for educating yourself, your families and absolute strangers:
U.S. Department of Transportation's site dedicated to distracted driving: Distraction.gov
Consumer Reports also has dedicated a page distracted driving, with an emphasis on teens, but parents need to hear it too
State Cell Phones and Texting Laws; find your state's laws
Focus Driven also offers sobering information from the stand point of those who lost a loved one or they themselves suffered an injury from distracted driving.
The Scoop
For this campaign to work, it must start with the parents. Please join me in putting the phone down and keeping your eyes on the road. If you are willing to make this change, leave a comment or just your first name, pledging that you too will stop using your phone while driving. And then go tell your kids that you pledged to put the phone down and keep your eyes up. They'll be impressed, and they won't forget. Over and out...
Anna
You might also like:
The Distracted Parent: Must Read Tips and Websites for Staying Focused and Driving Safely
Driving to Distraction Part II: Why Using Your Cell Phone While Driving is as Dangerous as Driving Drunk
Old Habits Die Hard: Must Read Tips and Web Sites to Help Break the Habit of Texting While Driving
Driving to Distraction: The Hazards of Texting While Driving and the Laws Restricting This Habit




I stopped using my cell while driving when I read your first post on distracted driving and continue with this practice. As you do, I talk in parking lots before or after arriving somewhere or in the midst of my errands. It works well and I no longer even look to see who is calling if it rings while I am driving. Keep up the good work!
Posted by: TLM | Saturday, March 12, 2011 at 05:04 PM
I do take your challenge. It is challenging for me at times, but I am working very hard to put my phone down and my eyes and all attention on the road. Thanks again for your writing. I too think of your research and writing many times while driving.
Posted by: Trina | Saturday, March 12, 2011 at 09:26 PM
I always put my purse, with my phone in it, in the back seat so I'm not tempted to answer it while driving. However, I have not really talked to my kids about why I do it, which is something I need to start doing.
And for what it's worth, I don't think hands-free options are much safer!
Posted by: Kelly | Sunday, March 13, 2011 at 02:13 PM
I will take your challenge. I really made an effort for a while but I let talking on the phone creep back in. But with kiddos there are enough distractions without the phone too.
Posted by: Julie H | Sunday, March 13, 2011 at 02:15 PM
Ugh....totally convicted. We have a no talking on hand held law, and no texting law in MD. Yet, I find myself still making calls. I tried the head phones, but felt that was more dangerous. Every time the phone rang, I'd grope around for head set, plug in wire, put it on...meanwhile trying to see the road. Not wise. So, I find myself with hand held up to my ear. Here's the hard part for me...I homeschool my kids, so drive time usually is my free time when I am off by myself running errands. I dial down, process my to do list and begin to call making appointments, following up on missed calls, etc...
But, I'm hearing you. Your words are making a difference.
~kristin
Posted by: LoveFeast Table | Thursday, September 08, 2011 at 11:46 AM
Really what we read(useful) sometimes suddenly gets clicked in our mind and stops us to do something wrong!Mobile phones are now one of the major cause if accidents!
Posted by: used cell phones | Monday, October 31, 2011 at 12:10 PM